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FAQ

Frequently asked questions

This collection of Frequently Asked Questions provides brief answers to many common questions about the HappinessInWisdom.com website, Testing and Consulting Services as well as how the testing works. If you have any questions that are not answered here, you may visit our ‘Contact Page’ for further inquiry.

Happiness in wisdom is a ground breaking new study that disassembles the human mind into its individual components and studies each separately. This reveals that humans’ 17 stagnant and primitive instincts is a drag on humans’ progressing intellect. This wastes a good portion of human intelligence and thus, every human applies only a fraction of the intelligence they have at their disposal. It resembles driving your vehicle with the emergency brake partially applied wasting a good deal of the power produced by the engine in your car. Releasing the brake restores the full power in your car. Exactly the same principle governs the relationship between instincts and intellect. Learning how to disengage these mental elements boosts your intelligence. Also, you avoid many of the unnecessary mistakes, secure more success and live a much happier life.

The Instinct of Survival
The Instinct of Language
The Instinct of Fear
The Instinct of Greed
The Instinct of Territoriality
The Instinct of Tribalism
The Instinct of Aggression
The Instinct of Chauvinism
The Instinct of Being Social
The Instinct of Politics
The Instinct of Sexuality
The Maternal Instinct
The Instinct of Curiosity
The Instinct of Laziness
The Instinct of Rhythm
The Instinct of Adventure
The Instinct of Divulgence

As there is no passing or failing in taking these tests, there is no high or low score. The values presented in the graph merely reflect the strength of each of the mental elements in your mind and the repot shows its implications that have an effect on your life. Depending on which test you take, you will get a report on four, eight or twelve of your instincts in a dissenting order. This will show you which of your instincts produces your deepest pleasure that also usually causes people their gravest problems.

All instincts are unchanging, unchangeable, stagnant and primitive. Each instinct strives for a particular brand of pleasure and satisfaction that renders all of them selfish by nature. Humans’ strongest instincts induce their most intense pleasures. Yet instincts emerge and function in the vacuum of intellect and reasoning and are totally alien to reasoning. Being devoid of logic, coupled with utter selfishness, render them blind and blinding. This mix impairs humans’ reasoning faculty and people make many large and small mistakes that hugely hinder their success. Thus, the stagnant instincts become a drag on the progressing intellect. Consciously freeing human intellect from the tight grip of the blinding instincts boosts the intelligence all people already have at their disposal

People with a high school diploma and higher education will understand the concept readily. This study is largely based on keenly observing human conduct and exploring what mental forces drive the different brands of behavior which we all encounter through life experience. Then, the theories formulated are validated because these forces are deeply rooted in the mind of every human, when shown, everyone readily relates to them and some react by saying, “why didn’t I think of that?”

By learning what every human mind consists of, you understand yourself and the people around you better, which enables you to initiate a more constructive relationship with them. In your professional life, if you are in sales, a manager at any capacity or a teacher, you will relate to the people you deal with in a more effective way. As a more refined person you will also relate to your superiors better. You will sound a great deal more mature and intelligent, regardless of who or what you are, that will command more respect for you. It will also help you to become a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend and so on, on both personal and professional levels.

This study shows that politics is not just a profession for the few in each society, but it is a brand of behavior unique to humans that starts in early childhood. Hence, “to be instinctive is to be selfish, to be selfish and intelligent, is to be political.” Because both instincts and intellect are permanent human fixtures, politicking that stems from their cofunction also becomes a permanent human trait. Probably this is why Aristotle claimed that man was a “political animal”. This human trait is the bridge between instincts and intellect. In that, the selfishness of all instincts urge people to trick each other into doing things that would benefit them that we commonly call politicking. Through this, each tries to impose his or her will and interest on others against their will and interest. Thus, politicking erodes innocence, which is why people worldwide do not like politics.

Unlike animals, humans are also equipped to intellect.  Man’s instinct of sexuality commands polygamy, but for practical reason humans have established hard rules to regulate humans’ sexual activities through marriage.  Thus, the polygamous instinct of sexuality urge people to desire more than one sexual partner, while the rules crafted through intellect mandate the opposite, monogamy. Hence, to satisfy this instinctive urge, a large number of the people who willingly have committed to pair bonding enter into extra marital relationships.  Those who do not behave this way resist the temptations and stay faithful to their spouses.  The painful implication of this conduct on the spouses has to be profound as it tears many families apart.  Our species being pulled in between the two opposite mental forces of polygamy and monogamy alone becomes sexually confused.  The suppression of this instinctive human polygamy has resulted in carving a universal psychology of its own.  In that, people in the privacy of their mind and in their imagination practice polygamy with the people they sexually fancy without physically committing extra marital sex that partially satisfies this instinctive urge.  This is commonly known as sexual fantasy and bridges the gap between the instinctual drive and what human intellect requires of them.  Outside the realm of how instincts and intellect jointly govern human sexuality and drive their behavior it would be utter difficult, if not totally impossible to explain this human phenomenon.